Aristocratic Americans

Jackie & Lee

Jacqueline and her little sister Lee (born three years apart), dazzled the world with their vibrant wardrobes.

The sisters adored traveling, horseback riding and always made headlines everywhere they went as stylish, aristocractic Americans.

While Jackie was known as the First Lady of Style, for years Lee served as her stylist, helping her find just the right look for state dinners and official outings.

Author Truman Capote adored Lee… “I can’t think of any woman more feminine than Lee Radziwill—not even Audrey Hepburn.”

Five lessons from Lee Radziwill:

  • Never shy away from bright colors. They make you look bolder.
  • Pick a signature color and own it. Think “blush & bashful!”
  • You can never have too many sunglasses… I wonder if Lee helped Jackie pick out hers?
  • Layer in accessories for sparkle…Lee said, “I like to create rooms which are essentially traditional —and then add touches of the bizarre and the delicious.”
  • Curate a wardrobe filled with elegant pieces like fur coats, trench coats, and A-line dresses. Be sure to dress well for any occasion, whether it be attending a dinner party or buying groceries at the supermarket.

P.S. How to be Parisian wherever you are

I always begin a room with the rug; it is literally the foundation of the space. I then go on to the furniture. ~Lee Radziwell


Gemutlichkeit is my absolute favorite word in the world.

This feeling captures the holidays beautifully! Ezra Jack Keats wrote the most gemutlich book…Snowy Day about a small boy named Peter who experiences the joy of a snowy day.

We just returned from a trip in the mountains. Let me paint a picture…Christmas morning it was snowing outside, there was a fire in the fireplace, my children drank hot chocolate, I had a panettone bread pudding in the oven, and was wearing socks that an Austrian Oma made for me. Do you feel it? Very gemutlich!

This German word is used to express a state of warmth and coziness. Also peace of mind and good cheer. You can’t beat this feeling.

Here’s another gemulichen example from this morning… It was cold outside, the Christmas tree lights were twinkling, my children were laughing together, I was drinking a hot chai latte and finishing a good book, baked apples were in the oven. Very gemutlich!

This is so simple and so good…so gemutlich!

  • 2 cups apple cider
  • 4 firm cooking apples, I like Gala
  • 1 teaspoon ground cinnamon
  • 1 tablespoon unsalted butter
  • 2 tablespoons brown sugar
  • 1 pinch salt
  • optional…dried cherries, raisins & nuts
  1. Heat the oven to 375° F.
  2. Pour the cider into a small skillet and bring it to a boil. Continue to boil over medium heat until the liquid reduces by slightly less than half.
  3. Use a melon baller to dig out the apple core, leaving about 1/3-inch of the apple intact at the bottom. Place the apples in apple bakers, pie pan or baking dish.
  4. Stir the cinnamon, butter and brown sugar into the cider syrup. Pour it into the apple cavities, allowing it to overflow into the baking dish. Bake the apples for 45 minutes, until they are perfectly soft but not caving in.
  5. Serve the apples with warm extra syrup spooned over them. If you want to, drizzle them with some heavy cream, or add a scoop of vanilla ice cream (if having for dessert).

Ich wunsche Euch einen schonen und gemutlichen January.

P.S. Cozy Winter Cocktails & Vail: Like Nothing on Earth

Best Halloween movies for kids & kids at heart

We love Halloween!! Nothing beats a weekend family movie night…especially if it’s Halloween time. What Halloween movies do you watch with your family? Which ones did you like growing up? On our kitchen counter there’s a list of Halloween movies to check off before the big day. We’ve almost checked them all off…two more to go. A good portion of our favorite movies are from the eighties. My husband and I love revisiting movies from our childhood and reveling in the nostalgia.

  1. High Spirits
  2. It’s the Great Pumpkin Charlie Brown
  3. Ghostbusters
  4. Hocus Pocus
  5. Beetlejuice
  6. Harry Potter
  7. Addams Family
  8. Monsters Inc
  9. Hotel Transylvania
  10. Gremlins
  11. Goosebumps
  12. Labrynith
  13. Casper
  14. Legend
  15. ET
  16. Poltergeist
  17. The Nightmare before Christmas
  18. Monster House
  19. Little Monsters
  20. Scooby Doo

P.S. Goonies is one of my favorites

Happy Halloween!

Be Mindful

My assistant principal does her very best to inspire our little school. I’ve been an elementary teacher for a loooong time! It’s so nice to come to work and know that we will laugh and smile because of something she’s cooked up! She is always dressing up and celebrating special days like national angel food cake, national coffee ice cream day and national chocolate cupcake day. This time she gave the teachers a different Simon Sinek quote on their door. My quote was, “When we help ourselves, we find moments of happiness. When we help others, we find lasting fulfillment.”

Simon Sinek is an author and motivational speaker about life, leadership, and doing the right thing. Sinek’s quote makes me think of how important it is to maintain yourself before you try to help others. My first thought was meditation…It’s like changing the oil in your car! We run better and are more able to help others and do our job when we’ve created space in our heads to focus, de-stress and be our best self. The essence of meditation is kindness…it softens the mind, nurtures the heart, and allows us to reconnect with the people and world around us. 

Sinek reminds me of Andy Puddicombe (the Headspace meditation co-founder). I think that Sinek and Puddicombe are both all about improving relationships and they way we live our lives.

Andy Puddicombe is a former Buddhist monk and the voice of Headspace. He says this about meditation…, “No chanting, no sitting cross-legged but rather just a really a quick and easy way to de-stress, focus and improve your relationships, sleep and overall way of living.”

Meditation is a part of my daily life. It helps me de-clutter my mind. There’s a healing and healthy feeling after I’ve meditated that helps me remember my connection to the universe and recover a sense of peace. I chase happy feelings! I chase them right into a ballet class. After I’ve carved out space to take ballet, I feel elated…like my true self. When I’m dancing, I’m speaking the hidden language of my soul. After this gift to myself, I come home a better mother, wife, teacher, daughter… It’s these moments of happiness that prepare us to help others.

I’m reminded of one of my favorite people, Grace Kelly. She said, “I would like to be remembered as someone who accomplished useful deeds, and who was a kind and loving person. I would like to leave the memory of a human being with a correct attitude and who did her best to help others.”

Grace Kelly had the right mindset and was mindful just like Sinek and Puddicombe.

Have you seen the documentary “I Am?”  It has interviews with prominent philosophers and spiritual leaders (including Archbishop Desmond Tutu) about what ails the world and how to improve it. It’s about how we should be compassionate and empathetic towards one another and shows through science how mankind’s true nature lies in helping one another and how some day maybe we can all be truly happy and help others. Everyone in the world should be required to see it.

Watching Tom Shadyac’s “I AM” can be a transformative experience. Shadyac says “The solution begins with a deeper transformation that must occur in each of us.  I AM isn’t as much about what you can do, as who you can be.  And from that transformation of being, action will naturally follow.”

The quote that my principal left on my door made me think about people like Puddicombe, Sinek, Shadyac and even Grace Kelly…what resonates with me and what I feel is natural is to be mindful to yourself so that you can be mindful to others. 

Offer tea, celebrate friendship

When my daughter wants to know if I like someone, she’ll ask me, “Mommy, would you make tea for her?” This is her test to know if I’ve made a friend. If someone that I care about is coming by the house, I will naturally say, “I’ll make us some tea.” My dearest friends know this about me…I’m not just offering tea, I’m celebrating our friendship. It will always be tea…never coffee or lemonade.

There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea.” ― Henry James, The Portrait of a Lady

I think I have maybe six tea pots plus my keurig, a copper kettle and a one-touch tea maker. Making tea has always been something I enjoy and I’m not alone… My husband is an iced tea drinker and he makes a pitcher full daily. My children will be content to do their homework with peppermint tea. There’s something ceremonial and comforting about making tea. Tea makes the world a better place.

Here are some enjoyable facts about tea that you might not know…

  • Tea is the most popular drink in the world (after water).
  • Ireland has the highest amount of tea consumption per person…six cups a day. Did I mention that I’m Irish?
  • Most teas…black, green, oolong, and white are naturally caffeinated. They come from the plant Camellia sinensis. Herbal teas are infused by dried herbs, fruits, or flowers like chamomile or echinacea.
  • Adding milk to tea keeps porcelain tea cups from cracking and helps keep teeth white.
  • Loose the tea bag…Tea becomes more flavorful as the leaves expand, which can’t happen when they’re crammed into a small bag. Instead, use an infuser to steep your leaves so they’re able to float around. Then strain before drinking. I love my Breville one-touch tea maker for this reason.
  • If tea is too hot, you can’t taste its subtle nuances…it should be like Goldilocks said, “Just right!
  • The tradition of afternoon tea was begun by Anna Russell, Duchess of Bedford in the 1840’s as “a way to quell the inevitable hunger pangs between lunch and dinner.”

P.S. Put the kettle on

Eggnog belongs to the winter

If I were the editor of SKI Magazine, I would probably put a picture of a skier being offered a warm glass of eggnog on the cover of the January issue. It’s what I want to drink when my bones feel like they’ve been on the top of the mountain…bumps then bourbon.

Homemade eggnog is fresh tasting and not too sweet…like the kind you get in the grocery store. It’s light and frothy like custard and it warms your bones and soul. I’m all for those warm apres ski cocktails in the winter time. Even if you’re not celebrating a great day on the slopes, you can celebrate that it’s winter because eggnog belongs to the winter…not just the holidays.

That delicious warm boozy milk is rich with frothy goodness. It’s light and yolky…the way custard is.

If you make a big batch, it will thicken up and get velvety…more flavorful as it ages, and it’s good for up for a week.

  • 6 eggs, separated (1 egg per person)
  • 1/3 to 1 cup sugar (make a simple syrup and add a vanilla bean for fun)
  • 3 cups whole milk with 1 cup heavy cream
  • Up to 1 1/2 cups bourbon
  • Nutmeg

Make simple syrup and let it cool slightly. Separate eggs and gradually add bourbon to egg yolks then milk and simple syrup. I like to use my immersion blender. In a separate bowl, beat egg whites until stiff and add sugar to your liking (or skip this part and save your egg whites for breakfast). Eggnog is most delicious served warm but you can store it in the refrigerator…the longer it sits, the more luscious and thick it becomes. Top with nutmeg.

Eggnog is flexible…you can swap out bourbon for brandy or rum. You might try using maple syrup or honey instead of a simple syrup. Eggnog has restorative powers, it’s the perfect apres ski drink because it puts you back on your feet…with a little buzz.

P.S. Cozy Winter Cocktails

Chanel No 5: a revolutionary perfume

Ohh, that smells nice! Can I have a squirt? My twelve-year-old daughter asked while brushing her hair in my bathroom. We were both getting ready for the day. The squirt that she wanted was Chanel No 5. Remember that scene in The Parent Trap when Hayley Mills tells her grandfather she’s making a memory and says, “You smell like peppermints and tobacco?” I know that is what my daughter is doing…making memories with her nose.

I’m never monogamous with perfume…I love it too much. Some days, you want to recreate a feeling from a memory. Perfume has that power…the smell of a fragrance can be recalled and bring a flood of memories. I remember being eighteen-years-old shopping in Galeries Lafayette…Chanel No 5 will forever make me feel like that eighteen-year-old girl shopping in Paris on a rainy summer day. 

I like knowing that Chanel No 5 was created during the summer of 1920 when Gabrielle Chanel went on holiday on the Cote d’Azur with her lover the Grand Duke Dimtri Pavlovich.

There she learned of a perfumer, a sophisticated chemist, Ernest Beaux who had worked for the Russian royal family. 

Beaux used a mixture of 128 ingredients highlighting jasmine, rose, sandalwood and vanilla. 

Gabrielle Chanel was obsessed with cleanliness and wanted something that would last until bedtime. Beaux mixed floral extracts with aldehydes…chemicals that artificially gave a clean smell but would last throughout the entire day. 

Beaux made up ten versions of the scent, numbered 1-5 and 20-25. Coco chose her lucky number five…et voilà!

Coco invited Beaux and friends to a popular restaurant on the French Riviera to celebrate and decided to spray the perfume around the table. Women would stop in their tracks and ask what the fragrance was and where it came from.

This was the moment that confirmed to Coco that it was going to be a revolutionary perfume. She had changed perfume forever. 

For ninety-eight-years this iconic scent has remained the Mona Lisa of fragrances. 

For me, wearing red lipstick, my grandmother’s jewelry and Chanel No 5 makes me feel like everything will be fabulous because I have a fabulous memory. It’s my good luck charm that makes me feel like I smell…refined, chic and French…shopping at Galeries Lafayette

Every woman should own a bottle of Chanel No 5!

Merci Coco! 

1. “A girl should be two things: classy and fabulous.” 

2. “I can’t understand how a woman can leave the house without fixing herself up a little, if only out of politeness. And then, you never know, maybe that’s the day she has a date with destiny and it’s best to be as pretty as possible for destiny.”

3. “Elegance is when the inside is as beautiful as the outside.”

4. “Dress shabbily and they remember the dress; dress impeccably and they remember the woman.”

5. “There is time for work, and time for love. That leaves no other time.”

6. “To be irreplaceable, you must be different.”

7. “A woman who doesn’t wear perfume has no future.”

P.S. Peonies: the most romantic flower in the world

Apples season is here…toast to Johnny Appleseed

It’s apple season…time to decorate for Halloween and sip on cozy apple cocktails. Johnny Appleseed’s birthday is this week! Toast to Johnny with this cozy Apple Autumn Spritz and German Apple Pancake.

I had about ten apples just waiting for me Saturday morning so I used my juicer and was inspired to enjoy apples all day long.

This bubbly apple and Aperol blend will make you want to roast marshmallows and enjoy the fall night air.

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In Good Taste: John Mark Gleadow

Inside a charming little art gallery in Rosemary Beach, Florida you might find yourself standing in front of a Marc Chagall painting…wearing a bikini, flip flops and smelling of sunscreen. Curate30A art gallery is special because it gives the viewer a casual environment…with that beach hair don’t care atmosphere. 

The walls in our Texas home host a collection of art that can best be described as eclectic and remind us of our past travels. The moment that I saw John Mark Gleadow’s painting In Good Taste at Curate30A, I could not stop smiling. It’s not the kind of art that will express a past vacation…it expresses my past cooking. There’s so much about it that’s personal to me. The same books that I’ve loved for years, titles that speak to me and especially seeing Julia, the queen of cuisine! Julia Child said, “I see every recipe as a little short story.” That’s what Gleadow’s art is to the viewer…short stories that provoke powerful memories. 

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Jell-O Girls

A few weeks ago, I was watching my children endure life in the sweetest season…summer. They would swim, I would read. They would sleep in, I would read. They would stay up late, I would read. Then my favorite…they would read and so would I! Reading curled up in a beach towel and lost inside a story with one foot in the pool. On a recent summer Sunday, my children persuaded me to walk out of Barnes and Noble again with a heavy shopping bag and a lighter bank account. I was so excited about my new book, Jell-O Girls.

I used to think that when someone new moved in to the neighborhood, had a baby or was sick that the kindest thing to bring them was a Jell-O mold. I can only guess that this came somewhere from an American upbringing. Jell-O is a part of our culture. That Jell-O jingle rang in my head as I picked up Jell-O Girls…but don’t think that this story is upbeat! No, the Jell-O family history has a dark side. “Teaching women, it turns out, was a tenet of Jell-O’s marketing…Jell-O, so pliable, so good, teaching them how to mold themselves to match it, pliable and good.” 

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